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your not going to believe this one...
| Fri, 08-20-2004 - 2:12pm |
Im pregnant- due April 15th!
YEP-- anyone who is using the Nuvaring STOP now - it obviously does not work!

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"Okay girls - these things always happen in threes and we have Mel and MBfun - who is NEXT?? ;-) "
Kim
I know Mary Beth's feeling of shock. I "accidentally" got pregnant two years ago while I was taking the pill. However, it was an EXTREME shock for me because I thought I couldn't get pregnant. I went through a year of fertility treatments to get pregnant with the twins: shots every day with a very strong drug, and I finally had to have artificial insemination. After my exh left and I started dating again, I was taking the pill, even though I thought I didn't need it at all, just as a precaution, because my doctor said it was a good idea. So you can imagine my shock when I took a home pregnancy test and it was positive. I had a miscarriage, which ended up being a blessing in disguise. The guy I was dating ended up being abusive to me and I ended that relationship. Had I not lost the baby, I would have been tied to him for the rest of life (I shutter to think of that). I truly believe God was looking out for me at that point.
I figure things work out for a reason, even though we don't always look at it that way. I wouldn't have planned it this way, and it is very hard at times, but having my twins saved my life. Had I not had them to keep me going after my ex left, I probably would have become an alcoholic. But, I didn't have time for that; I had baby twins to take care of. Because of my high-risk pregnancy situation, and because my exh started running around when I was pregnant, I was very stressed all the time throughout my pregnancy. Plus, it became apparent towards the end that my ex could care less about the kids. So, if I ever get lucky enough to find someone who loves me and wants to marry me, and if he wanted kids, I'd love to have another baby (at least now I know I CAN get pregnant without help) -- and experience the joy of being pregnant with someone who really wanted it. I feel I missed out on that with the twins. I know -- "KEEP DREAMING ALICE; WONDERLAND IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER" (my favorite saying).
Donna
"-- and experience the joy of being pregnant with someone who really wanted it. I feel I missed out on that with the twins. I know -- "KEEP DREAMING ALICE; WONDERLAND IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER" (my favorite saying). "
I missed out on that too....I will always regret that.
Kim
Kim
:S.
Although if I was - it would be awful - but great too. But I hope when it does happen I am a bit better prepared. Especially with certain health concerns. But you deal.
Laura
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