Can't understand, what am i missing?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2008
Can't understand, what am i missing?
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 11:36pm

So, I've been noticing this guy for months and really have a thing for him. For awhile I've tried to get into his conversations he would have with his friends in the lounge and then finally I caught his attention with what I said. so about a month ago I had the nerve to ask him for his number and I gave him mine but he never called or texted me. so i texted him one night and he responded. i told him during the convo that i kinda sorta have a teeny tiny crush on him and his exacts words were "oh yeah then we need to talk". so since then we talked on the phone once and he drunk texted me but says he doesn't like to text. we would meet to talk only in the lounge on mon and wed's. one day as we were talking it seemed as though he was really deep into the convo with me b/c we were talking in a low tone so that others couldn't hear and he also touched my leg with the back side of his hand. then i had the nerve to ask him out for lunch. told me we could meet on wed and even confirmed it on mon. he didn't show up so when i texted and called him, he told me, "not going to be able to go today family crap just came up." i've been brokenhearted ever since and i know it's because he either forgot about our lunch, actually had a family problem, or is not interested. what's worse is that I had to call or text him to find out if he wasn't gonna make it and never said i'm sorry. what am i missing?

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sat, 04-28-2012 - 10:34am

You did everything right.


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Registered: 05-29-2012
Sat, 12-29-2012 - 7:41pm
You are missing the fact that he isn't that "into you" so just move on. He was rude not to call or text that he wasn't coming which indicates he is "that type of guy" and it's good you found out early.