Mixed Signals

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Registered: 04-26-2012
Mixed Signals
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Thu, 04-26-2012 - 5:19pm
Hi. I have just begun (3dates) seeing someone and he's GREAT! I have so much fun with him and he has already told me he likes me a lot and thinks we may have a future together. We met online in late February, and as I said, have been on 3 dates with a potential date this weekend and a definite date one night next week. Here's the thing.... I RARELY hear from him... In the beginning, when we were getting to know each other, he was texting & chatting online often. Now, I may hear from him once or twice a day or at times not at all. Is this "normal"?? I do know his job has changed this week and he's busier & more stressed because of it, but still.... And I know I'm not supposed to compare, but all the other guys I've dated, if they were interested, wouldn't STOP texting... Am I worried over nothing?
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In reply to: gleek68
Thu, 04-26-2012 - 10:05pm

Not every man (or woman)wants constant contact.

chaika

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Registered: 04-26-2012
In reply to: gleek68
Thu, 04-26-2012 - 10:24pm
Thank you. I am trying to be patient and take things as they come and live in the moment.... I am NOT good at that but I AM trying. We had a brief but nice chat tonight & set up a date this weekend. Expect many more posts to keep me calm! Haha!! Thanks again for the reply!!
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In reply to: gleek68
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 10:50am

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In reply to: gleek68
Fri, 04-27-2012 - 11:17am
Thanks, musiclover12, you're right. All the others I have dated had more lax jobs or worked for themselves. I appreciate the reality check!! :)