Advice......

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Registered: 05-11-2009
Advice......
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Wed, 06-23-2010 - 5:37pm

Hello! I'd like advice!


I broke up with my ex a couple of months ago now. Last weekend I went to a party for a guy that I have been friendly with for about eight years, we've always had a flirty connection but have never acted on it. Recently, since being single he has become flirty with me, when we are out he always touches my boobs!!One of my friends innocently joked with him

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Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: alip2009
Wed, 06-23-2010 - 5:55pm
Great you had great sex. That is what is means. He also fancies you. Now the ball is in your court.
Things won't be weird. Act like his lover and you will be fine!
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Registered: 05-11-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Wed, 06-23-2010 - 6:33pm
Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it. He did initiate it but who knows! Thanks again :)
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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: alip2009
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 7:27am

Just be yourself, there's no reason to act in a different way.


You're both adults who wanted to have sex and did it, nothing to feel weird about when you're with him or with

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In reply to: alip2009
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 3:01pm

I do agree with the other posters. You two had sex and it was great. No need to feel uncomfortable around anyone. I guess my questions to you would be, do you want more from this? Are you looking for a relationship?



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Registered: 05-11-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 5:02pm
Thanks guys for the advice, it means alot!
I don't know what I want from him if anything, because my ex hurt me so bad I find it very hard to trust guys. That fact that we hooked up after so many years does make me wonder how he feels about me. Even when I was with my ex boyfriend we always had sexual tension between us so who knows but he and the sex has been on my mind all week!! :)
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Registered: 06-08-2008
In reply to: alip2009
Fri, 06-25-2010 - 4:10pm

girlfriend.. I'm so happy for you!

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Registered: 05-11-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Fri, 06-25-2010 - 6:55pm
That is so sweet, thank you so much! I think you're right for me to play it cool as it was him who initiated everything to begin with!
Thanks for the advice. :) x
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Registered: 11-13-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Sat, 06-26-2010 - 1:59pm

Well, my opinion is different than the others in some respect.


So you slept with him after (or during?) a party at his house?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Sun, 06-27-2010 - 6:28am
Thank you for the advice. Any advice is appreciated. We went up to his room at the end of the party while there were still people there. I was with him for the night so I know he didn't hook up with anyone else. The way I'm starting to look at it is he's single and so am I, we've wanted each other for so long and it was amazing. I don't know what I want now if anything from him!
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Registered: 09-14-2007
In reply to: alip2009
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 7:07am

Sex is usually "amazing" when it's either, fresh, new or forbidden in some way.

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