Advice......

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2009
Advice......
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Wed, 06-23-2010 - 5:37pm

Hello! I'd like advice!


I broke up with my ex a couple of months ago now. Last weekend I went to a party for a guy that I have been friendly with for about eight years, we've always had a flirty connection but have never acted on it. Recently, since being single he has become flirty with me, when we are out he always touches my boobs!!One of my friends innocently joked with him

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Sat, 07-03-2010 - 4:57pm
Oh I totally understand, I appreciate any advice. Thank you! :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2007
In reply to: alip2009
Sat, 07-03-2010 - 3:55pm

I totally understand that - really - and you knew him - he wasn't a stranger


I understand fun so believe me i wasn't judging - I was just giving advice based on your question


Take care.

Denise

Denise

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Sat, 07-03-2010 - 4:53am
I slept with him because I wanted to being totally honest. It wasn't as if I regretted it and he initiated it so we both wanted it. He's young free and single and so am I, I've known him for years so it's not as if he was a complete stranger. I don't make a habit of having one night stands but when the oppurtunity came up for us to be together I took it and had fun!
Thanks for your advice.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2007
In reply to: alip2009
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 7:36pm
Why in the heck did you sleep with him - this guy was using you - he is so much a player - if you just want one night stands - then go for it. I won't judge that cuz a lot of girls - I am thinking you are young - like that stuff

Denise

Denise

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
In reply to: alip2009
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 7:07am

Sex is usually "amazing" when it's either, fresh, new or forbidden in some way.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Sun, 06-27-2010 - 6:28am
Thank you for the advice. Any advice is appreciated. We went up to his room at the end of the party while there were still people there. I was with him for the night so I know he didn't hook up with anyone else. The way I'm starting to look at it is he's single and so am I, we've wanted each other for so long and it was amazing. I don't know what I want now if anything from him!
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Sat, 06-26-2010 - 1:59pm

Well, my opinion is different than the others in some respect.


So you slept with him after (or during?) a party at his house?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Fri, 06-25-2010 - 6:55pm
That is so sweet, thank you so much! I think you're right for me to play it cool as it was him who initiated everything to begin with!
Thanks for the advice. :) x
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2008
In reply to: alip2009
Fri, 06-25-2010 - 4:10pm

girlfriend.. I'm so happy for you!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2009
In reply to: alip2009
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 5:02pm
Thanks guys for the advice, it means alot!
I don't know what I want from him if anything, because my ex hurt me so bad I find it very hard to trust guys. That fact that we hooked up after so many years does make me wonder how he feels about me. Even when I was with my ex boyfriend we always had sexual tension between us so who knows but he and the sex has been on my mind all week!! :)

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