After the party I wasn't invited to...

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Registered: 03-31-2003
After the party I wasn't invited to...
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Mon, 03-31-2003 - 9:08am
Hi everyone,

Some of you may remember I had been dating a guy who didn't want me to attend his big birthday party. Well, here's an update...

The party was Friday night and, although I remembered it was Friday night, I never did get invited and so I didn't go. I went out with some friends instead. (Actually, this guy and I haven't seen eachother in a few weeks anyway). I went home and went to bed. At 1:30 am my phone rings and I answered it from a sound sleep. It was the guy who had the party. He was calling me, drunk, to tell me he missed me and he wished he had invited me and he thought about me all night during the party. He also said that because he had been drinking he could tell me that he really cared about me and he was going to treat me better. Amazing what alcohol can do to a person! So, I listened for a brief amount of time and said I was going back to sleep and hung up.

Saturday I half expected to hear from him apologizing for waking me up in the middle of the night. I didn't hear from him at all all weekend. I wonder if he remembers he called me.

I am not sure what to say. I kind of take it as a bad sign that a 35 year old man calls women drunk in the middle of the night. However, I know that people let loose every now and again and I figured he'd be pretty drunk at his party.

Thanks for reading...

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-31-2003 - 9:23am
How do I put this... "kind of take it as a bad sign"??? No it's not *kind* of. It *IS* a bad sign. He doesn't invite you to his party, but has the temerity to call you in the middle of the night with what we used to call "Whiskey Di

It frightens me that you would even entertain the notion of this guy calling you again. Seems to me this guy is only interested the proverbial roll in the hay... at *his* convenience. I think you should aim a lot higher than this dude. Just my humble opinion.

Sisy

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-31-2003 - 9:27am
You go Sisy! Tell her like it is.

I agree 100%. (which on the old format, would have simply been a title with n/t)

Brokk...

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Mon, 03-31-2003 - 9:38am
I agree, I think it was a terrible sign and I don't want to or plan to see him again. I am relieved he did that in a way, though, because it showed his true colors.

Thanks for the input.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-31-2003 - 10:57am
I totally agree with Sisy, too!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-31-2003 - 1:39pm
Exactly. I totally agree.nt
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-31-2003 - 3:08pm
Sorry that guy ended up being such a loser. On the bright side, he just made an a$$ of himself in front of you. Forget about him and move on, you vixen you...