always going out of my way.and for what?

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always going out of my way.and for what?
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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 10:28am
Long story. well i was out with friends about a month ago and a guy friend of mine had introduced me to a friend of his. we flirted a little bit but never exchanged numbers or anything. figured i'd never run into him again. so about two weeks ago, my guy friend calls me and puts me on the phone w/ that guy. we talk alittle bit. he asks for my number. we hit it off over the phone pretty well. talk for hours. he was texting me alot and was often the one to text first. i figured he had to be a good guy. i told him that i like to cook and i think jokingly he told me i should cook for him. so a couple of days ago, as a nice gesture, i invited him over for lasagna.
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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 10:59am
Sorry, but I don't see where you two fit together at all. Move on, don't call/text or whatever with him. Sounds like he was just looking for one thing.


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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 11:01am

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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 3:49pm

....."i dont understand why guys always have to expect that. i mean, wasnt me cooking good enough? they always try to see what else they can get out of you.".....

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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 9:42pm

He shouldn't have been a crybaby about it but really in my opinion you shouldn't have issued such a suggestive invitation and then been surprised. A guy you hardly know, alone at your house, then kissing on the couch, really?




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Tue, 04-20-2010 - 10:30am

First....it bothers me when I hear things like: "Why do all men...."

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Tue, 04-20-2010 - 9:55pm

I agree with Coconut and MC, inviting a guy you really

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Thu, 04-22-2010 - 9:55pm