ARRGHHH...I am frusterated

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Registered: 03-26-2003
ARRGHHH...I am frusterated
Thu, 04-10-2003 - 11:03pm
So, I know this is stupid but my SO and I are going on vacation next week. I have been really nervous, this is my first vacation that I have not had a part in planning and I dont really know what to expect. He was understanding at first but now seems annoyed.....yet he promises to get me information then never does!!! I am trying not to nag him but I need some answers. We leave TUESDAY. Also he has been really short with me lately on the phone. He comes to see me more often (more than just weekends, and I live a distance away from him) which is nice, but I REALLY need to just talk with him for more than 30 seconds a day. I know he has a life too...as do I, but I call whenever I can, usually only to leave a voicemail and then get my 30 seconds of "good night I love you" before I go to sleep. I know it sounds silly to complain about but we used to talk a lot more....is this just a transitional phase? Also might want to mention we are both in college right now (hence the distance) but are planning a marriage together anyway (we have known each other 5 years now). I know its not all cuddles and baby talk, which we never had anyway, but he seems to just get frusteated with me so easily. I dont know what to do.

~JEN~