Been seeing a guy for 6+ weeks...
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|Sun, 02-28-2010 - 2:55am|
Haven't really heard much from him the last week (and we saw each other once, but mostly twice a week) and i accused him of not wanting to see me anymore, rejecting me but not having the guts to tell me. He texted back 2 hours later that I am wrong and he is still interested in seeing me. I told him that if he has time to scratch his butt then he should have time to call/txt me. He basically told me he has no time to scratch his butt at all as he's been leaving the operating room (he's a chief resident of surgery on his last months) past midnight and then having to come back to the hospital at 6am. (His texts are always 2 hours or so apart.. in between surgeries)
I told him life is too short to make excuses. LOL. I do get he is busy but I am miffed of the lack of contact. If he likes me, he would even just wanna say hi, right?
He said he is not rejecting me by not calling. Told me he will touch base with me at the end of the week. Just FYI, ever since I've known him, he never calls or texts me just to chit chat. It's always to make plans.. usually he would ask on a Monday (if I saw him Friday or Saturday) for my schedule the whole week.
My gut is telling me to be more patient but everyone else around me is saying to watch He's Just Not Into You.. YES, I've seen that movie! LOL.
He assures me that he still wants to see me and I'm glad but so far, he hasn't really made any effort. Last time I talked to him was Wednesday night and he said he will talk to me later at the end of the week.. but so far.. nothing. I'm definitely not going to chase him but I wish I know what's up.
What to do? I really like this guy.. we are not exclusive (something we have not discussed) and I am dating other people.. but he's all I could think about. And while I do believe him that he is busy and I am trying to wait patiently for him...I am getting insecure. LOL
Edited 2/28/2010 3:00 am ET by michiru2004