BF Looking Up Former Crush Online?

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Registered: 03-22-2010
BF Looking Up Former Crush Online?
Mon, 03-22-2010 - 3:06am

that he wishes he had never lost touch with her, as he felt they would have made a good match).

However, now she is living in the same town as he is. And while I don't think he has seen her yet, they email each other on a regular basis.

Today, as I was accessing my computer's history to find a website I had been to, I noticed the history from when he had been using my computer earlier in the day. The history indicated that he performed a search for her on a social networking website.

Should I be worried? I am thinking that she must be on his mind if he is running searches for her on the internet.

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Registered: 01-02-2010
Mon, 03-22-2010 - 5:31am

Just running a search, in my opinion not necessarily. I do that myself now and then not because I want any communication with former boyfriends but just because I'm nosey. I'll think I wonder whatever happened to so-and-so (person I used to know of either sex) and google them but not want any contact with them.

But emailing on a regular basis

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 03-22-2010 - 11:21am

Yes, I think you should be worried. He actually told you he wishes they never lost touch and that they would have made a good match??? Sounds to be like he's not compeltely over her. I do think you need to talk to him about it.

Personally, I don't think doing searches of people is worrisome. I've done that just to see if I could find people.

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