Can someone help me understand??

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Registered: 09-19-2010
Can someone help me understand??
Sun, 09-19-2010 - 5:51am

Over the last five months, I've become quite chummy with a work colleague who works on rotation about three hours flying time from me.

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Registered: 09-06-2010
Sun, 09-19-2010 - 1:50pm

Yes, he was rude not to call but I think it is not good to put too much into what was to be a very casual get-together with someone you don't know well- not even clearly a date. When he didn't answer your call you should have dropped it and gone about your own weekend. I would treat him like any other work acquaintance, pleasant but distant.

Edited 10/2/2010 10:17 pm ET by darling.carly
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sun, 09-19-2010 - 3:06pm
I think this guy is either a player or just an immature jerk, or maybe he's married. Don't waste any more time on this guy that seems to just want to play mind games with you.
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 8:47am
Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. Anyone that would treat me like that doesn't deserve to be a friend. Let it go. If he tries to contact you, just tell him you're busy.

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"Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest,
It's about those who came and never left your side ...."

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Registered: 03-03-2010
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 5:16pm

Uh, I think he's married.