cant tell if he likes me?
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| Tue, 03-09-2010 - 1:52am |
i met this guy who is good freinds with my cousin, i have had a crush on him since i was 13 and im 24 now. i never really seen him that much and i dont no him that well but last weekend i went over to my cousins house and he was there. we were all drinking and he kept flirting with me and hitting on me.
well he already knows that i had a crush on him for a long time,, anyway buy the end of the night niether one of us could drive home so we had to stay there. there was a spare bed in the basement and when me and him got down there i asked him if he was gonna sleep on the floor and i get the bed so the next thing i no he climbs into bed with me and he cuddles up next to me and put his arms around me and he told me i smelt good and he could get used to that and than he went to sleep.
well the next i got up and left before he got up and later on he texted me, so we have been talking for a few days now, well we have been texting each other. but i just dont no if he actually likes me or just wants to be friends. see to me in a way he seems like the player type cause i no he has been with alot of girls. and he hasnt asked me out or anything. whenever he texts me he always calls me homegirl or he always says stuff like whats up girlfriend so i just dont understand him. i just got out of a long relastionship and i dont want to get my heart broken again. so i dont no what to do about this guy?
I used to believe in forever,

but forever was too good to be true.
Winnie the Pooh
Homegirl? Whats up? Sounds like he's being cheeky but friendly. Certainly not tongue tied and nervous like he really is head-over-heels about you - but I could be wrong. Plenty of guys can be cheeky but completely smitten too. There isn't enough information for us just yet either.
Look, I'd say that you're safe to assume that he quite likes you, would have sex with you if the time and place was right, but isn't interested in pursuing you enough to have a serious relationship. Basically, if you showed him that you were interested in him then you wouldn't look stupid even if you'd read things a little wrong and he turned you down.
However, if in the future he seems to be more interested in you than chasing other girls then yeah, he might be interested in a relationship. Time wil tell. Don't sleep with him until you feel comfortable - which may take some time since you've just come out of another relationship.