I have a question!!!! Do guys consider contact on the internet as
It depends on
Exactly what kind of contact is bothering you so deeply?
If you expect us to never, ever, acknowledge another woman then you're in for a long and unhappy ride.
I used to believe in forever, but forever was too good to be true.Winnie the Pooh
You are right! But the part that bothers me is flirtin online with complete strangers. True I have a few male friends and he has a few female friends and I'm okay with that as long as it stays as friends. We are both ok with the fact that ok you can be attracted to a person but not act on it and we express that. That is my real problem it is not like some random person that walks by or you see out and about and say oh shes attractive or hes handsome.
Have you talked to him about
Yes, I agree, cheating doesn't necessarily mean physical, it can be emotional cheating but there's a difference between sexual talking on line/emotional cheating
"And I saw that he was conversing with people online cause I was being nosey."
Apparently, you had trust issues before you found out so either: a)there is more reason than his online communication that has caused you to distrust him or b)you are looking for a reason to justify your own unfounded insecurities so you can project "blame" onto him.
Either way, the issue of his internet activity is a symptom of the real problem, not the problem itself. Start by asking yourself why you felt the need to snoop in the first place and, if you are honest with yourself, you will find the answers you are looking for.