co dependent man -- cut off?
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co dependent man -- cut off?
| Wed, 05-03-2006 - 4:18pm |
I have to end a relationship. This man is very co dependent. I do not wish to have that kind of relationship with him. Its killing me, I am sick, I can not sleep. My stomache is hurting again. My blood pressure is so down I am stresses. Why cant he take no for an answer. I have had 29 calls from him today alone. Now he gets verbally abusive I have not answered one of his calls today. I hate this. I am trying to get papers together as quickly as I can so he will know its over but I can not take this. What else can I do?

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Get his number blocked from your phone, and have all other calls go to voice mail before you answer. Change your locks. Have someone walk you to your car when you leave work, and if possible, call a neighbor to meet you at your door when you arrive home.
Get a restraining order, if you must go that far. But start documenting NOW the ways he's harassing you in case you need it. Call your local PD and ask them what else you can, or should do, to protect yourself and stop this harassment.
Pamper yourself like you've never done before. Get your hair and nails done. Buy a new outfit. Spend a day at a spa. Exercise LOTS and stay away from junk food - eat healthy foods instead. Spend lots of time in activities that make you feel good. Spend time with friends, family, pets, children. Keep yourself busy busy busy, so you won't have time to think about him.
And stick to your guns. Don't give this man a single INCH, or he'll take a mile.
Good luck, hon. You can get through this... stay safe.
Msfit
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Sorry, I'm a little confused....
I'm pretty sure that would be it.
I'd say one of two thing would happen - one, he will not relent, and you might really end up ahving to get a restraining order (which, BTW, might not be a bad thing to threaten, as the mere threat of something like that freaks people out), or, you actually DO sit down somewhere and talk and explain things and he does relent. And I know, you've probably tried that one already, huh? LOL!
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