comparing how you feel now to past relationships?

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Registered: 08-09-2010
comparing how you feel now to past relationships?
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Wed, 11-30-2011 - 9:41pm

just wondering if any of you guys would continue to date your GF even if you feel you should love her more but don't? Like if you can recall how you were really in love with your ex but don't feel the same with your new GF.

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Registered: 12-22-2007

Trail-girl, I noticed that you've got no responses.

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Registered: 08-09-2010

thanks for answering, no, he is not my boyfriend, he is my friend with beneftis - or he was - i found out he's had a GF for about 3 yrs and we've been on and off for 2 1/2 of them.

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 12:02am

I've had many friends

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Registered: 08-09-2010

ok, thanks so much

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Registered: 12-03-2006
Sat, 03-17-2012 - 12:07am

I stayed in R/S I was not happy with because I was lonely. When you're with someone for a long time there certainly are areas of compatibility that keep you together. At the same time are are areas that are not compatible and couldn't be worked out. So you stay for the companionship but the passion is gone.

You didn't mention your age but I got the impression you're fairly young...in your 20's perhap? If you do care about him as a friend and want to help him, not with the selfish intetion of breaking them up, then by all means find out what happened. However, remember that he was a cheater. I have no sympathy for cheaters.

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Registered: 04-25-2011

He's cheating.........period.

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Registered: 08-09-2010

I am 36 and he is 38..