I started seeing this guy about a month ago.
So lets break this down:
You've seen him maybe 4 or 5 times in one month
He's is a responsible Dad and busy
You never talk to him like you say.......you only text; you initiate everything and he texts" I hear ya" and you have already slept with him; you "tease" him about girls when he goes out with friends (I wouldn't do that) - That can send a guy away really fast
I wouldn't text him now - you were either a booty call or he will contact you.
wel.... I do feel like i initiate alot.
As a single mom with 99% custady of the kids I am going to tell you right now...you are not a priority if you want to be #1 you are with the wrong guy. You others you have dated maybe didnt put thier kids as first as much as this guy does..1st youve only been dating a month. 2nd you are to far wrapped up in him. 3rd maybe you should have held off on sleeping with him while you were confussed...lesson learned. True intamacy does come with time a lot of time and he is going slow he has kids to think about.
Please don;t talk to him about it - and some people start opening up right away - and some don't - just take it easy and enjoy your everyday life - and don't sleep with him! - LOL
keep in mind how simple mninded men can be...they are really really bad at muti tasking. He can pnly concentrate on one thing at a time. If he can do 2...WOW!!!
Do your own life give him space...giving a man space is the best thing to do when he has stuff going on. Keep yourslef open to dating others.
I understand why you say that....
But, how do you know when it's better to back off or not?