Confused by his actions

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2003
Confused by his actions
Fri, 07-27-2012 - 7:29pm

I met with a guy for a first date after a month of text messaging. He has been texting even after the date.

Today he asked me if he could date me to which I responded "Yes".

What confuses me is that he still logs on and chats on the online dating site.

Is he just looking to date casually? Is he a player? He hasn't talked about meeting up again yet.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Fri, 07-27-2012 - 9:31pm

Hi and welcome to the board.

  The fact he is online and talking is not unusual.  Many people make friends and date more than one person.  Women do the same thing.


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Registered: 12-22-2007
Sat, 07-28-2012 - 6:36pm

SK, until the two of you agree to be exclusive, he's doing nothing wrong by chatting with others.   To be realisitic, the two of you could meet for a date and not like each other at all.  

It's far to early to expect him to give up on others.