I started seeing this guy about a month ago.
>>So am I supposed to assume, which I HATE doing, that he doesn't want anything now? Also he said that this is his busiest time for work right now. ........<<
Hon, don't assume anything - it's really not required.
What YOU dont want to happen is for him to dissapear...what if HE needs to dissapear for awhile.
I understand why you say that....
But, how do you know when it's better to back off or not?
Do your own life give him space...giving a man space is the best thing to do when he has stuff going on. Keep yourslef open to dating others.
keep in mind how simple mninded men can be...they are really really bad at muti tasking. He can pnly concentrate on one thing at a time. If he can do 2...WOW!!!
Please don;t talk to him about it - and some people start opening up right away - and some don't - just take it easy and enjoy your everyday life - and don't sleep with him! - LOL
As a single mom with 99% custady of the kids I am going to tell you right now...you are not a priority if you want to be #1 you are with the wrong guy. You others you have dated maybe didnt put thier kids as first as much as this guy does..1st youve only been dating a month. 2nd you are to far wrapped up in him. 3rd maybe you should have held off on sleeping with him while you were confussed...lesson learned. True intamacy does come with time a lot of time and he is going slow he has kids to think about.