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|Thu, 02-04-2010 - 11:40am|
So I've been dating this new guy for a month. We haven't kissed or anything sexual. We are more like friends you can say. But he calls our outings 'dates'.
So I have yet to tell him that I like him, but he is always telling me that he likes me a lot, blah blah blah (yet he hasn't tried to kiss me). I'm not too sure if i'm attracted to him yet. But I love talking to him (we talk on the phone for hours) and I always have a good time when we hang out.
So, I just found out that he broke up with his ex a year ago, but officially a month and ahalf ago. According to him things have been over for a while and they decided to just remain friends instead of trying to work it out.
Okay, so for his bday, last friday he asked me to meet him at a club where one of our mutual friends was celebrating his bday. He told me he will be showing up late since he will be going to dinner with his family( he is an extreme family guy, he actually already introduced me to his family). So he didnt show up until 3am, when I was leaving: upset.
He called the next day confessing that his mother had invited his ex and the mother decided to have a friends/family reunion instead. The family didn't leave till 1, and he had to take his aunt and ex back home (weird).
I mean he didn't have to tell me, since we are not a couple, but the whole thing just seems weird to me. So, I then go to his facebook and noticed that his ex had written a message the day of his bday saying this:" see you later my butt-head, muahhh (and a heart)." How weird????
We were supposed to go out this sat but he wants to reschedule for friday (this is the 1st time he does this; since he is always into hanging out all the time). I dont know what to think anymore.... I havent confronted him about the message or dont even know if I should keep going from here.