CoWorker/Friend /Roomate turned more?
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|Fri, 04-11-2003 - 3:18pm|
Since my last BF cheated and left me for someone else, I have pretty much retired from the dating scene. I was very much in love with him and no matter what, I couldn't accept another man in my life. That was almost 3 years ago, and I've been pretty happy and fullfilled on my own.
An old friend who I used to work with moved into town and recently moved in as my roomate. He and I have always been friends, have a great time together and have known eachother thru many different situations. But we never thought about getting together...mostly because I refused to. All our friends keep bugging us to become a couple, but we never did....until last nite.
We often hangout, watch movies, and fall asleep together (very When Harry Met Sally), but nothing ever happened. Last nite, something did. He went for it and I responded. In the morning, we both had to rush to work, so we didn't really get to talk or think about what had happened.
What puzzles me is, he hasn't said ANYthing about it yet. Not this morning, no email, no calls, nothing. We email eachother all day long, usually....
I'm taking this as him regretting what happened. That he does NOT want anything more with me. But then why did he instigate it? Is this a common guy thing to do? and if so, what do I do now? I can handle being just friends again, but since we are roomates, is our friendship ruined?