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|Mon, 04-14-2003 - 1:49pm|
I thought all he wanted was a ménage a trios, I told him it is not too hard to find a woman who would fancy joining a couple. But he insisted on the seduction. Then it dawned on me that it is not so much the sex or menage a trois that he finds so thrilling as much as the power, seduction and entrapment.
I would enjoy a menage a trois with my lover, but I feel somewhat uneasy about the method of persuasion. Yes, it's just a game, but I told him that people's feelings are REAL. He wants me to be his partner in crime, but I think it is not a game if the "weapons" we are using are real. He thinks I am being uptight and too "no-nonsense." Does my boyfriend need to see a therapist? Am I too uptight or do I have a point?