deciphering man speak
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|Mon, 04-07-2003 - 11:43pm|
Recently, I made contact with an old boyfriend, whom I hadn't spoken to in almost 7 years. I sent him a letter, just wondering how he was, etc., not really expecting a relationship to come of it. Anyway, within 10 minutes of getting my letter he called me, but I wasn't home. So, he sent an email to me. I received his email the next morning, and wrote back explaining I didn't get home until late, so I hadn't returned his call. So we agreed I would call that night, which I did, and we talked for over an hour. He mentioned that he was in the middle of moving to a new home and that after the move, we could meet for beer. Then we decided to meet for lunch the next day.
Meet for lunch, and it was a tad ackward, but we made it through it and both seemed to have a good time. So as we are leaving, he told me to keep in touch and to give him a call. So I guess my question is, when a guy asks the woman to call him, is it b/c he is too chicken to actually make plans for a date and wants to leave it up to the woman to give him the green light, OR is it just his polite way of saying he really doesn't want to see me again? I ended a 5 year realtionship about 6 months ago, so I am needing a refresher course on dating and just what exactly a man is trying to tell you. Any thoughts, advice?