Decoding men

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Decoding men
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Wed, 03-10-2010 - 10:53am
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Registered: 05-04-2007
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 1:31pm

Depends on what you want & how you see relationships working


If you think guys should lead & take initiative in the asking, then you asking him out won't work. You'll find guys that accept your dates & then don't take the lead.


Otherwise, what you're doing is good. Flirting, dressing up.


Where do you meet them? Maybe it's the location?


White & employed seems totally reasonable, lol, ... but could there be other expectations you're putting out there? What's the wrong kind?


Is East Texas as concerned with appearences & social classes, as much as I expect it would be? (some places just seem to mix better than others)


Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 11-25-2007
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 2:29pm

NO not just white and employed.

@HoneyyDater Come listen to my very random tweets about dating after 40.
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 2:50pm
What kind of places are you going to that you're meeting the kindof men you're not interested in?





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Registered: 05-04-2007
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 2:54pm

Maybe try going out with them anyway, they could be nice underneath the tough exteriors


Maybe they want to be appreciated for more than their clothing choices, while you want to be appreciated for more than sex


Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 11-25-2007
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 4:10pm

So Tulip say yes to every guy who asks me out?

@HoneyyDater Come listen to my very random tweets about dating after 40.
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 4:19pm
No, it doesn't mean you need to go out with all of them. Try going to differnt places. Obviously where ever it is you're going is not the right place.





stpatricksday-1.jpg picture by nhgal2006


I used to believe in forever,
but forever was too good to be true.
Winnie the Pooh
button-23.jpg picture by nhgal2006



28999825.jpg picture by nhgal2006

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 4:22pm

I gave a guy my number and he sent pictures of his penis until I threaten to have someone kick him until his penis fell off.


Whoops!


I've never had that experience


Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 11-25-2007
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 4:27pm
East Texas' finest.




@HoneyyDater Come listen to my very random tweets about dating after 40.
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Registered: 11-25-2007
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 4:39pm

It isn't a lot around here.

@HoneyyDater Come listen to my very random tweets about dating after 40.
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Fri, 03-12-2010 - 2:51pm

I think one major thing you could do is stop lumping all men together in any way and simply see those individuals who responded as badly as they did, as rotten apples in the barrel.


You still have not answered where you're going that you're meeting only the jerkiest of the bunch.

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