Deep Eye Contact

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Registered: 05-26-2010
Deep Eye Contact
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Wed, 08-18-2010 - 1:04pm

Hello All -


I am here for a friend, asking some thoughts as to why a guy is making deep eye contact with a her at work.


Story is quite simple;


They broke up not long ago, it was his idea, they were on and off for almost 2 years......they had a few words but she was the one hurt, she was the "innocnet one" and they don't speak anymore yet recently she has told me how they have been making pretty deep eye contact. They see each other and just stare into each others eyes....won't say hi, won't smile, just deep eye contact but dosen't know why, what he is thinking, but she said she feels "something" when they stare into each others eyes this way.


Any thoughts?! :) thanks!!


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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 08-18-2010 - 1:16pm

Not sure what you mean by she's the "innocent one", what's he guilty of doing?

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Registered: 04-10-2010
Wed, 08-18-2010 - 1:46pm

I believe body language or nonverbal language

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 08-18-2010 - 2:52pm

It couldn't have been much of a relationship if it was on and off for two years.


They see each other and just stare into each others eyes....won't say hi, won't smile, just deep eye contact but dosen't know why, what he is thinking, but she said she feels "something" when they stare into each others eyes this way. Well, what is she thinking? Why is she staring into his eyes? He could be thinking the same things. He's starting at her because she's staring at him.



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"Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest,
It's about those who came and never left your side ...."
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Registered: 05-26-2010
Wed, 08-18-2010 - 3:54pm

I told her the same thing - that he might be wondering why she is staring at him, I think it is becuase they both would like to put the past behind them and move forward, as in friendship.


I mean, I understand the whole "deep eye contact" and such, but she said they "hated each other" after the "break-up", she would ALWAYS aviod any sort of eye contact with him when she would see him and now has decided to go ahead and look.....and here we are.


However, the other day (Friday) he polite to her by opening the door for her and saying "excuse me".....not a big deal, but from what she is telling me, it is with the way they've been to each other since the break-up.


So, I dunno.....hard to tell, their relationship was based off sex anyway, they just have a strong sexual chemisry/attraction for each other. So I bet whoever said he is just "horny" is prolly right, lol!!!!


:)

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Registered: 02-14-2007
Wed, 08-18-2010 - 6:35pm
Tell her

Denise