Did I just get blown off?

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Registered: 04-05-2008
Did I just get blown off?
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Mon, 10-31-2011 - 2:13pm

So about a week ago I ran into this guy that briefly went out with an acquaintance of mine so I met once a year ago. We hit it off and made plans to hang out a couple of days later. We are in the same industry so I figured we would be friends. I wasn’t really sure that I liked him or that it would be a date. So we had drinks the first night, then again a couple of nights later. He seemed to be super into me and I was still on the fence. On the second date we made out and I put on the breaks. Told him I wanted to get to know him better. He begged me to stay over, said we didn’t have to have sex. Around this point I realized that I really do in fact like him.

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Mon, 10-31-2011 - 2:39pm

I don't know why you'd let yourself start falling for a guy who is trying to push you further physically. You don't know him all that well so I would be very careful to make judgments about how great this guy is or how compatible you are.