Did I ruin my friendship ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-27-2005
Did I ruin my friendship ?
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Tue, 07-05-2011 - 10:56pm

I have a male friend. We have been friends for the last 6 years in the last year I realized

give me any advice
keke
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2010
Wed, 07-06-2011 - 2:56am

Hi. I really don't understand why the friendship would be ruined. I can't imagine he'd be upset about the gift. Also, since you haven't disclosed your true feelings for him, he can't be spooked by that.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 07-06-2011 - 10:43am

I don't know why buying someone a gift would ruin your friendship, but I do wonder--were you in the habit of buying each other gifts?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2008
Wed, 07-06-2011 - 12:02pm

UMmmm no...I think you were thinking that maybe he thought to much into cuz you think to much into it....tell him how you feel at some point or you will drive your self crazy

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-27-2005
Wed, 07-06-2011 - 9:46pm
It has to be something. He usually text me everyday but I haven't heard from him since June 29 for me that feels like a lifetime.
give me any advice
keke
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2008
Thu, 07-07-2011 - 1:43am

have you ever bought him a gift before ...about the same value???

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-27-2005
Tue, 07-12-2011 - 10:07pm
Yes, I buy clothes and suits all the time. He called last night because we haven't spoken since his birthday. He wanted to know how I was doing, the conversation felt awkward he kept saying how he has been working long hours.
give me any advice
keke
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2008
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 11:36am

does he buy you gifts??? on or about the same value???