Do I just not get it? Or...??
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|Mon, 07-12-2010 - 10:40am|
So my guy and I have been dating for 6 months. He lives an hour away and so we've been using webcam chats to get us through the week and then he either comes to where I live or I goto where he lives on the weekend. If either of us aren't going to be online to talk, i.e. taking a night to ourselves, or we don't feel well...we let the other person know.
So he went home last night after being here at my house with me all weekend. He said "I'll see you later" before he left. So naturally I assumed he'd be online as usual. He called me around 8:30pm and we chatted for a bit. He didn't show up at all last night. I tried texting him, and calling him. When I tried the second to call him he finally answered. He didn't see a problem with simply not being online. When I asked him why he didn't tell me he wasn't going to be online, with a text he said because he was charging his phone and it was in the other room. He said he'd been online briefly, but said he'd not looked to see who was online when he was so he didn't think of messaging me that way to let me know he wasn't going to be online.
So...I don't get it. After talking this way for the last 6 months, naturally I assumed he'd let me know if he wasn't going to be online. Like isn't it common courtesy? In my mind it's just kinda rude to leave someone hanging like that. He still insists that it was no big deal.
I understand having time to yourself, but you know at least clue me in and let me know. I do that for him. Kinda like standing someone up on a date...