Do men EVER grow up?!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2011
Do men EVER grow up?!
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Thu, 03-15-2012 - 3:51pm

Seriously though. My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for 3. Most of the time, yes, I think he's funny.. but lately I find myself more and more annoyed with him. It's like he's reverting back to his awkward teenage years when he thinks that maybe if he grabs my ass (in a rude way) it'll turn me on... or something I don't know. I don't get it. There is definitely a lack of physical-ness in our relationship, but other than that things are good. Is this going to continue for the rest of our lives?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2011
Thu, 03-15-2012 - 6:49pm

How old is he

At least he is grabbing you - LOL

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2011
Fri, 03-16-2012 - 8:34am

LOL

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2010
Sat, 03-17-2012 - 5:23pm
You (and everyone, tbh) should read Guyland by Michael Kimmel. He has an interesting theory as to why young men in America still act like such children.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2011
Wed, 03-21-2012 - 4:24pm

Don't make yourself nuts - its no big deal - this should be your biggest problem

My husband still likes cartoons among other "kid" stuff - a lot of men are that way - not all

He can sit with his Iphone and play games forever - especially when he waits forever to be seen by a doctor - KWIM

I don't think he is being disrespectful when he grabs you

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2012
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 8:42am

Funny this came up now, right after i just recenty felt so fed up with my husband groping my body parts at the worst times that I wrote him a letter about it. He has backed off since then. I did a search online "my husband gropes me" to see if many other women are annoyed with this, and