Does he knows I'm interested and he's just having fun?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-20-2008
Does he knows I'm interested and he's just having fun?
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Thu, 12-23-2010 - 12:42am

I'm having a hard time deciphering the behavior of this man. I really like him, but I only see him once a week through this organization. I feel like I get mixed signals from him. In the past not recently, He flirted, came to support me at events and did

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2006
In my opinion, you were doing a great job at keeping active and busy with your own life and focusing on that. He is giving you mixed signals and he doesn't seem to be worth you doing anything right now. If he is interested, he will reach out to you. In the mean time, keep doing things you enjoy, have fun, and stay available to other people you will meet along the way :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009

"he text me saying thanks for

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-20-2008

Thanks for the replies.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2009

A man bold enough to massage your hand would be bold enough to ask you out if he was interested or free to do so. He is probably in a relationship with someone else, or isn't interested enough to ask you out. A person who sends mixed signals is not a good prospect. Don't expect anything to happen with him, and put your attentions elsewhere. Good luck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007

I agree that if he was bold enough to massage your hand, then he's bold enough to ask you out if he was intereseted.

My only caution to you is to not rely on text message as communication.