Does he want to get back together,or not?

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Registered: 11-09-2008
Does he want to get back together,or not?
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Sun, 11-27-2011 - 11:50pm

My boyfriend and I broke up last August,I moved on to someone else and realized it was a mistake. I missed my ex,Devin. After that relationship ended,I texted Devin and we texted back and forth for a month. Well, a week ago Saturday we got together and talked about "us." He told me he loved me,missed me and he made plans to get back together. He made such a big deal about it. He said he wanted the control this time and that it was going to be his way. He planned out everything in such detail. He said he wanted us to tell his mom and friends together. He said that he wanted to make it official the Monday after Thanksgiving. He made a point of taking my face in his hands and then he said the strangest thing.He said,"we are nothing right now,but we will be official on Monday." Well that was last a week ago Saturday,I texted him the following Monday--no response. I texted him again,tonight--Sunday Nov.27th about 8pm and he said he was at work-I guess he just got a job this past week. I asked him if we were still meeting tomorrow,Monday and he said he had to work. I asked him when and he said he had to check his schedule. I then asked him if we were still doing "the plan," and he never responded. So, texted him 2 hours later and told him that if he had changed his mind about us getting back together to not leave me "hanging,"--still nothing 2 hours later. Should I assume that he is being a coward and doesn't want to tell me that he has changed his mind? Please help me.

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 11-28-2011 - 6:11am

Hon, the stuff he told you makes him sound like a nutter.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2008
Mon, 11-28-2011 - 9:36am

I don't understand what you mean by that.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 11-28-2011 - 11:28am

I understand perfectly what TBS means by this.

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 11-28-2011 - 3:17pm

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Mon, 11-28-2011 - 3:57pm
It almost osunds like payback in a way - did you break up with him? Either way, move on, he does sound like either he doens;t kow what he wants, or he changed his mind and is afraid to be honest with you
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Registered: 11-06-2008
Wed, 11-30-2011 - 4:59pm

If he wanted to get back together with you he should have done right when he grabbed your face...what a fruit cake...I would not wait for him...move on.