Does this mean anything?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2007
Does this mean anything?
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Sun, 06-19-2011 - 10:08am

My love interest and I have known each other for 5 years now. We started off as friends and it led into a relationship. After several ups and downs we had stopped seeing each other. He's been sending some conflicting signals lately and I was wondering if they mean anything. I really want to get back together with this guy but I don't want to read too much into anything.

1) He calls me by my first name now.

We're in the military so he called me by my last name except when arguing. Now he only uses my first name when we talk.

2) He confides in me

I had gone through a rough patch and told him about it one night. He was really understanding and admitted something to me that most men wouldn't admit. He also told me some other personal information.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2008
Sun, 06-19-2011 - 8:42pm

theres a friendship....guys dont really high 5 the girls their into for more than....tell him how you feel

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2007
Mon, 06-20-2011 - 7:59am

Oh no. I've tipped my hand too soon with this guy in the past. I'm just going to let it ride and see what develops, if anything.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2005
Mon, 06-27-2011 - 4:48pm
There may be some lingering attraction, etc. Many guys would be open to resurrecting some kind of relationship with an old flame given the opportunity.

Why did you two break up in the first place?

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