don't understand

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Registered: 04-11-2009
don't understand
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Tue, 09-21-2010 - 12:58pm

So I was convinced that this guy at work and I were digging each other. He was always around me even if he didn't need to be. As in he would just come over where I am and stand there watching me. He generally makes contact with me if he can. Talks to me quite often and just looks me straight in the eye when we pass each other. Also he wouldn't shut up about how things weren't the same while I was on vacation a while ago and punched me goodbye when he told me to have a nice trip.



I know that he knows that I like him basically because he said so. Then the other day the conversation takes things to discussing intimate things people do and he starts asking me about what I like to do outside of work. So thinking hey maybe this would be a good time to ask him to do something I told him that my friend and I were having our weekly get together and that he was more than welcome to come over. He was into it and I told him just so he didn't think that I was only trying to get him alone that my friend would be leaving for work about the time he got there if that was cool (ah the sneakiness on my part). He was, but then he just kept asking me questions about if my friend was hot and what she looked like etc. So now I have no idea what to think since I thought I was reading the signs well but then he keeps asking about my friends looks???

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Tue, 09-21-2010 - 1:54pm

Either he's teasing, or he thought you were trying to set him up with your friend, are my guesses



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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 09-21-2010 - 2:25pm
So, you invited him to do something with you and your friend? Maybe he thought you were trying to fix the two of them up togethers, or maybe hoping for a 3some.




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Registered: 04-11-2009
Tue, 09-21-2010 - 2:44pm
Yeah I guess I can see how he would think that. Granted I was just trying to tread lightly considering I kinda happen to be his boss and it's kinda not allowed. Plus since I don't really know how he feels it seemed like the best option to have at least someone else around however brief just in case. Oh me and my awkwardness with guys*sigh*.
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Registered: 05-04-2007
Tue, 09-21-2010 - 3:24pm

considering I kinda happen to be his boss and it's kinda not allowed.

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 09-22-2010 - 8:42am

I kinda happen to be his boss



You kinda happen to be his boss or you are. That certainly changes things. Stay away from him. That won't be a good thing to start. I bet the company would frown on that big time.




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Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 09-22-2010 - 3:01pm
Duh Methinks you do not appreciate the spot you put him in.
He may be afraid because you are his boss. He may think you are setting him up with your friend. He may be very confused. In this Political correct world he may not have a clue Nor does it seem that you do.
Now I have has sex with my supervisor,had a boss bully the girl that i liked so her friend could become my lover,(I resented that),had bait and switch (hot girl for her comparatively homily friend; I am a gentleman and made sure she had a nice time) The game playing is not good but this depending on the company might be suicide for both.
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