Drivng myself INSANE

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Registered: 01-11-2011
Drivng myself INSANE
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Tue, 01-11-2011 - 4:54am

I really dont know what to think anymore , im driving myself insane

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Tue, 01-11-2011 - 11:50am

You are both trying very, very hard to appear more uninterested than you are. I think he is into you but trying hard not to appear desperate.

I like to give a guy a reason to pursue me, I like to give him the go-ahead to take initiative if he's interested. I would personally be likely to say something like "don't worry about texting too much, I like it, but would like it better if you called sometimes". Let him know that you're interested in him and that he doesn't have to fear showing interest in you because you won't reject him. But do it in your own way. Be inviting, engaging.

I do think he's interested but you have to stop putting an emphasis on texting, because it's a really horrible gauge of someone's interest, and it leads to a lot of unnecessary confusion. You'll see how he feels by how he acts in person! Good luck :) Let us know how that goes