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|Sat, 09-18-2010 - 9:03am|
Hello, my story is quite long but I will shorten it up. We have been seeing eachother for 3 years now. The 3 years has been a very bumby ride, we fight often but also there have been some good times. About a 7 months ago he broke things off with me and said that we should just be friends. Months later I find out from his roomate that he told him that he was going to ask me to marry him but he thinks that I slept with his friend and that is the reason for the breakup. About 3 months later, and he still kept in contact with me everyday, I got mad at him and he then changed his mind and came over and spent the night and things went back to the way they were before and we started seeing eachother again. During the 3 years I have found out that he cheated on me. I always forgave him and we moved past it. So he moved in with me a month ago and from day one he slept on the couch, when I asked if he was coming to bed he would smirk and say I don't know. Some nights he came to bed but no sex. He said he doesn't want to try because it will go back to the same stuff over and over again so why bother.
So, one day I found his cell phone and he had texts on there from the girl that he cheated on me with. He had still ben seeing her. I confronted him and he didn't say anything. I told him I wanted him out of my house and I kicked him out that night. A few weeks, almost a month had passed and he ignored me and I tried contacting him and nothing. I also talk to his sister daily and his kids and I are close and talk almost everyday. In talking to his sister she said he asks about me all the time. So one day I text him and he texts me back. We talk via text and he said he didn't want to be friends anymore but still kept texting me. So we have texted the last few days all day long. Then I ask him if he is stil in contact with that girl he cheated on me with and if he is contacting her and he replies with "you say I cant n y is that" So I assume he was avoiding the question. I asked again 2 more times and he never replied, never answered. So I guess thats my answer.
I love him so much and have invested SO much in him. I helped him with bills, I cooked for him, cleaned, I have all of his things at my house, I buy him things, food, I help his kids, family, everything. BUT when we talk he is such a jerk, he is acting like he doesn't care, I have to contact him, I tell him how I feel and he got mad at me and told me he doesn't want me in his life anymore, and when I ask him so If I tell you how I feel you say you want me out of your life and he said yes because it's the same sh!t. So I know this is crazy but I want to be with him. What should I do? Should I just end it all and hope he comes back? Am I holding this so called relationship together? Should I show him that I am serious because I have always been there for him no matter what he has done to me? Any suggestions would be helpful.