fear ill say dumb things out of nervousness and it will turn him away..

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Registered: 06-29-2007
fear ill say dumb things out of nervousness and it will turn him away..
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Sun, 05-29-2011 - 11:04pm
I have a guy that I have only seen a couple times but we have had good chemistry and have another date planned soon. I feel like we have a decent feel for what the other is about..not entirely but have an idea about each others personality, in general. Anyhow, during our conversations between dates i tend to find myself overanalyzing and beating myself up over things I say. I don't think they are big deal things but I tend to worry. I'm curious how easily a guy could get turned off by a woman due to me saying something silly. When we get together we both are nervous and this past date was amazing and I was convinced I couldn't do anything to make myself worried. We have contacted each other twice today and I'm beating myself up. Anyhow..just curious.
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Registered: 11-28-1999

I think you should concentrate on ways to lessen your anxiety and not worry so much.

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Registered: 12-22-2007

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Registered: 06-29-2007
Thank you! I was hoping to hear that. I got nervous after the first date because we got along so well. I put too much pressure on myself and that's helpful to hear! Thank you!
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Registered: 05-18-2009

On a first date, I said something about running over a baby with my car

We've been dating over six years now

If I didn't screw that up then I bet you will be ok