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|Fri, 06-25-2010 - 9:55am|
I dated a guy several months ago who broke it off. I was going through a divorce at this time. A month later I ran into him while out with another guy. The guy I use to date started texting me while I was out with this guy. I ended up spending the weekend with the ex-boyfriend. Afterwards, he ignored my text and call. I texted telling him not to play with my feelings.
Fast forward two months after that weekend. We ran into each other at a bar but neither was "with" anyone. Each time I got on the dance floor he followed. Once it was only myself, the guy I was dancing with, this other guy, and the girl he was dancing with. I looked up and when he had the entire dance floor he was instead dancing right beside me! I totally ignored him this night. Two weeks later I ran into him again and was on a date and again ignored him.
He texted a friend of ours on Saturday and asked how I was doing. She told him I was okay and that my divorce was final. Said he commented over and over about my divorce being final. Several days later he stopped by our friend's house to talk to her. He again asked about me. Wanting to make sure I was okay and again kept commenting on my divorce being final. I saw him last night and spoke to him. Within 30 minutes after leaving the restaurant he texted me. Just said it was good to see me and that I looked good. We texted back and forth several times. He asked if I was still in town and I told him no. He said it was still nice seeing me.
I texted him this morning "hope you have a good day at work". He read the text but won't reply. What's up with this guy?! Why can't he just leave me alone or us get back together??? I'm in love with the guy and the chemistry between us was incredible!
Okay, so he finally texted back "you too". At least we are talking again. I'm just high on anxiety after the last several months but know I need to slow down.
Edited 6/25/2010 11:08 am ET by startingover10