Posted this another board too, so
I don't know what you are confused about.
well if you dont like booty call things...maybe just maybe you should have asked where you guys stood before you got naked. I dont think you were out of line but it was said in a way that was pissy. guys hate pissy more the choose this or that. You could have let him know how you felt about him and letting him know how you felt about sex with him. Let him have his space and let it go. The fact you are recently divorced tells me you are NOT