Friends bf is ex - man whore

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Registered: 12-18-2009
Friends bf is ex - man whore
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Fri, 03-26-2010 - 2:55pm
This is for my friend who is 42,divorced for 5 years now,kids grown,living on their own.She has been dating a 49 year old man,divorced as well for 7 years- adult kids.They have been dating for 6 months now and he has told my friend recently that he has been with many many women and admits to have been a man-whore( I hate the term personally ).My friend has been told by some of his aquantacies that he is not a nice guy ,basically boiling down to this guy not having a good reputation.
The reason of my post is because my friend asked my opinion.I personally wouldnt go ahead with a guy of this reputation even though 'past is past' is applicable in many situations.But can a 49 year old ex man-whore change?? How much are the chances on a scale of 1 to 10?Even if he changed miraculously,I wouldnt feel like having sex with such a guy.
My friend is attracted to him but since knowing this and hearing from other people,she is questioning the long term of this relationship.
Thoughts??
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Registered: 01-02-2010
Fri, 03-26-2010 - 4:45pm
I guess it depends on what is meant by "man-whore" and "not a nice guy." I don't think there's anything wrong with sleeping around if he was single and that's what he wanted to do. And then there could come a time where he gets tired of it or meets the right woman, gets ready to settle down again. On the other hand, if he's a serial cheater, then I would probably expect that to continue. So to me, I would want to know how honest he is about his activities more so than how many women he has slept with.
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Registered: 02-06-2009
Sat, 03-27-2010 - 5:25am

Are you saying that he was a male prostitute or escort?

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Registered: 12-18-2009
Sat, 03-27-2010 - 12:35pm

No,not a male prostitute or escort.Its a term used for men who sleep around with many women.This guy has slept with a lot of women ,kind of used and threw away and running in the race of who bangs the maximum game.

My friend cant put it in the past -- each to her own.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Mon, 03-29-2010 - 3:44pm

Sleeping with many women while single is one thing, however, this--


....."kind of used and threw away and running in the race of who bangs the maximum game.".....

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