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|Wed, 09-24-2003 - 4:07pm|
i am just starting what is really my first "grown-up" relationship- i just turned 24 and graduated college last year still dating my college boyfriend. i have found so many differences between the stereotypical college frat guy type i had been encountering up to this point and the guys i meet now- mostly for the better (what? guys really do open doors for you?) :) but now i am faced with a new set of rules- how work affects a relationship and other things. instead of trying to get me drunk and back to his room, this guy wanted to wait to have sex, and we did recently with a more mature relationship and it meant alot more. he works alot, and is great about trying to call me, but i am used to seeing the guy i am dating all of the time (lots of free time for everyone until now). is it bad if i only see him once or twice a week (but have lots of good quality time)? and one big question: should i worry that he doesn't want me to sleep over? i did a few times and neither of us really slept, just tossed and turned and he said he needed to get more sleep and it was hard to sleep next to someone bu we would "work on it" and it would just take some getting used to. but then i was at his place saturday night, and when i said "do you want me to sleep at my place?" he said "if i didn't mind" because he can't sleep well with me. what should i do? should i worry? is he taking it slow because he doesn't like me or because he does? help! teach me!