he got married while still together
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|Mon, 09-06-2010 - 12:24pm|
this was posted on another forum, but i'd like to get male view on this and more responses.
this is the only information i'll provide:
my recent ex and i were still officially boyfriend and girlfriend when he visited the country where he's originally from, and he told me he plans to marry me in few months. he permanently lives here. when he returned back here from his trip he told me he was pressured by many people to marry someone else while he was abroad. he said he asked a girl to marry him who he was told to meet while abroad, so they're now married. family pressure is tough but it was his final decision. she's not here yet, but will be coming here soon.
how do i get over this betrayal?
why would he'd even say we'll be friends, we have time to hang out so no rush to meet, and says when the girl comes here i can meet her. why is he saying these things when he's already hurt me a lot? friendship isn't going to work in this situation since he didn't marry me.