He keeps putting off getting tested
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|Sat, 07-05-2014 - 10:33pm|
I'm been dating a man for about 3 months. I have asked him to be STD tested. I originally requested 6 weeks ago. He has yet to do it. This isn't somthing small to me. I don't think it's a small thing for anyone.
I actually found out the other day he was tested last summer for his ex-girlfriend. He admitted she had to make the appointment and go with him there. So, obviously, he has had this issue before. I told him I'm not his mother. I'm not going to make his appointment. I told him I was done. No more until he got tested.
I thought he understood, but this morning he wanted to have sex, and I reminded him that that was off the table until he was tested. I told him he needed to get a plan in place. This conversation came up again later in the day. I told him he had had 6 weeks. This isn't my fault.
Personally, I feel stupid having to even go this route. It's pretty much on par with making the appointment and driving him there. He admitted he hasn't gotten it done because he is lazy. Does he not realize how important this is to me? What else can I do?