He says he likes me "a lot"...
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|Thu, 11-29-2012 - 2:10pm|
First off, let me say I appreciate your help.
A brief insight into my situation.... I just turned 46 a week ago and have been ( for about 3 weeks now ) on one of those Online Dating sites after about 7 yrs of being single. I have had one meet & greet with one guy and he seems to be nice. He is a single dad with full custody of his 2 daughters and a biz owner, etc etc.He was very communicative and keen on meeting again which I was open to. In the following days he would constantly text me which I found very annoying and finanlly did tell him that I'd much rather talk on the phone and that I am not looking to be anyone's texting buddy. He did appologize and said he would call but never did for a week and I did not call him either. Yesterday he did call and left a VM and said he has not forgotten me and has been thinking about me but he was busy with his biz and also the thanks giving holiday week, which is understandable and fine by me. He called late last night, we talked for a while and he said he wants to go on a "date" in a couple days which is fine and we are going to do that on Sunday. I am a bit confused as he says he really likes me feels that we are a good match but then again he has told me several times that he does not like to rush into anything and that I have to be really patient with him. To which I said "this is not a race to me and I am not sure why you feel compelled to keep reminding me of that". He did not answer my question and I did not push for an answer either. So please help me understand what he is really trying to say.
I have also been talking to another gent (again online dating ) for about 3 weeks now and we did get off to a shaky start. He messaged me online and said he wanted to meet right away, to which I said NO! I was not going to be meeting anyone right off the bat. And also because we seemed to have a communication disconnect. When I explained to him that I am not in a rush to jump into anything and first wanted to talk over the phone before we met etc, he agreed and we have been talking since then and have a date on Saturday. He has been a real gent thus far and is very respectfull and understanding of my views on dating etc. He has told me numerous times that he is really very excited to meet with me and he has been looking forward to meeting me and that he "really really likes me a lot"!. Wow, really and we have not met as yet... help me understand this please.
Thanks again and happy holidays to all.