He will get married when I do???????
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|Sun, 12-08-2013 - 9:17pm|
I had a fling with a guy while going to school. The thing is we had really good conversations and really connected.
He told me in the beginning that that he was not planning on getting married to anyone. I accepted that and we still continued to keep in touch.
3 years later He got a woman pregnant and now has a 9 month old baby. I was surprised and dissapointed because he may make a committment to this woman because of the baby.I called him a few weeks ago and he told me this. He also told me he would explain later about the baby. He also told me to let him know when I got married. i really felt then like I was getting a goodbye brushoff from him.
I told him the next day via email that I felt I should move on from our "friendship" out of respect for his new family. He emailed me back saying that the relationship was not going to lead to marriage he was glad that I called, and that he would tell me the whole story later. He also said again to let him know when I get married and mabey then he would get married.
This is confusing to me. Why does it matter to him when I get married?