He won't look at me??

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2009
He won't look at me??
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Tue, 08-31-2010 - 3:33pm
So a new guy recently started at work. While I think of him in a not so platonic way I can't figure him out. He always uses my name when talking to me which is weird and strange in my opinion. And he talks to me quite often yet rarely ever looks at me. He occasionally looks me straight in the eye, but often down and to the side? Does this mean that he really doesn't like talking to me and I need to back off or is he just one of the strange creatures that we call men?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009
Tue, 08-31-2010 - 4:18pm

He sounds nervous. I have noticed that some people just can't make eye contact, and others avoid contact when they are nervous about talking to someone in particular.

You can't use body language like this to have any meaning by itself. Body language is supplemental to actually talking.