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Thu, 08-19-2010 - 7:13pm
me and bf been together about 5 months...everything was great uptil 2 weeks ago...on his myspace he has added over 150 woman (mind u all of them have barely anything on at all)
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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: snowangels03
Thu, 08-19-2010 - 8:53pm

First, if it bothers you that much and he doesn't seem to care, then that's a problem. You need to try talking to him about it again and see what happens. It sounds like there is no trust. Do you have any reasons for not trusting him? People of the opposite sex can have a friendship that doesn't involve anything sexual.


Also, just because the sex is great between the two of you doesn't mean that the relationship is good.



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Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: snowangels03
Thu, 08-19-2010 - 9:06pm
Was the adding women before or after you blocked the porn site and whose computer is it anyway?

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Registered: 04-10-2010
In reply to: snowangels03
Thu, 08-19-2010 - 9:26pm

I'm not a guy but it sounds to me like if

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Registered: 05-18-2009
In reply to: snowangels03
Fri, 08-20-2010 - 9:07am

So here are the facts:

1) You really don't like his habits, they break your heart.
2) He is clearly uninterested in changing his actions to assuage your feelings.
3) Things are getting worse instead of better.
4) You have been dating only a short amount of time.

I think it's time you admit to yourself that through these five months of getting-to-know-you, you've started to realize that you don't really like the person he is. His positive treats come with negative ones, and the negative ones seem really bad to you.

You can block porn sites to your heart's content but he will always find a way around. You're never going to block him from wanting to look, you're only going to cause resent.

Is this a deal-breaker for you? Because you're not going to change him.