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|Mon, 08-16-2010 - 4:27pm|
So short story me and my Bf of 7 yrs, have been broken up for a month now. He never reached out to me until just yesterday. He came back to my house and told me he still loved me wanted to be with me but cant get over an incident that happen over 1 yr ago.
(in ref to that story) He broke up with me during that time he would come over randomly and was very forward about being with other women, and that I needed to move on. So i did well not actually just had a one night stand well my luck have it he came over that night and caught me in the act. After that incident he never really got over me sleeping with someone else even though he made it VERY clear he had moved on. SOOOOO...fast forward to yesterday well he told me he that becuase of that incident he cant help but treat me bad and not show me the affection I desrved. Welll he said he needs time to heal and still loves me and we'll make it work, in short time. That was yesterday.
So today i was at work , he stopped by(never does)asked me to step outside and confronted me about our recent time apart this past month. He said i needed to be honest that he loves me and that if I tell him the truth whether I had slept with anyone while we were apart?? At first I didn't want to be honest I only slept with one guy during our recent break up and it was after 20 days of no contact. But then my ex said this morning he went in my trash while I was at work and found condoms. He said it was in your trash can and in your trash bag he said don't worry i love you and wont leave you I just need to know the truth that i need to be honest if were going to make this work. So i had to come clean.
Well he lied as soon as I told him Now he hates me and says he wants nothing to do with me that Im a sl*t. And that during this past month he held out. He was so upset he literally ran away.
What am I to do I love him and even though he came back to me yesterday he still didnt take me back 100% he needed time. Iw as so scared to tell him about my recent sleep over becuase I already knew how he feels about the last time which was last yr end of june. So of course I didn't want to tell him but ha no choice. I feel very tricked and lied to and now i feel like how can i save this relationship???