HELP Why is he doing this?
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HELP Why is he doing this?
| Sun, 08-29-2010 - 7:11pm |
OK so I posted several months ago about a guy I met that was on and off again with the mother of his child. We broke it off and during our time apart, they finally broke it off. After awhile, I contacted him (I didnt know that theyd broken it off yet), and said sumthin like "So you dont contact me anymore because your feelings are too strong for me to just be friends?" And he said that was true...and we started talking again.
After meeting up, I found out they had broken up. All of our feelings were there and I felt even stronger than I did before. He said he wanted to be with me, but I felt like
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On-again, off-again treatment means he wants p***y when he doesn't have anything better to do. I think that you are searching far and wide to convince yourself otherwise. Good luck.
Edited 8/29/2010 8:30 pm ET by coconut2010
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He's doing it because he can and it works for him, you're there when he wants, he's gone when he doesn't want you.
"Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest,
It's about those who came and never left your side ...."
Unknown
Before I read what everyone has said to you - its not going to work and don't waste your time - he is not there and he certainly is not ready for another relationship - only from what you said - he tends to maybe - this is a maybe -bi-polar tendencies - which I know very well.
Denise
You know, I don't know if I agree that he is intentionally using you.
It doens't matter why he's doing this. The fact is that he will continue to play you until you stop letting him.
Cut off all contact with him, now and forever. Do not answer if he calls. Do not reply to emails/FB requests.