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|Mon, 09-22-2003 - 10:14am|
Some background: Grew up with Jeff, he's so shy, grew up with a stuttering problem. I always thought he was cute but never in a b/f g/f way much to the dissapointment of his best friend Greg who was also one of my very good friends who would always try to get us together.
Present situation: I see Jeff periodically, usually at group functions. I recently saw him after a long time earlier this month at our 10 yr. reunion. I found myself becoming increasingly attracted to him. We talked on a off but nothing ever came of it. This past weekend I saw him at a small movie theater in town (he works there on Sat. nights for free movies) and we chated about different things. Again, i found myself very attracted to him. We had talked about skiing at the reunion. He has never been and I go every year to a small ski area around where we live. So when I saw him this past weekend I gave him my number and told him to call if he wanted to try skiing this winter. I was so nervous that I didn't stop to think that even if he did want to contact me I put a time table on it (wait for snow) so it could be winter before I would know if he's even interested enough to go skiing with me.
Anyway, is there a non-threatning way to contact this man. Like I said, we've always been friends but I don't think I've ever called him or vice versa. He doesn't have e-mail so there goes my easy out. I don't know that I want a relationship with him but I would love to see him on a bit more of a regular basis to try to get to know him.
What do you guys think? What is a good way to approach this? Any ideas? We still have a friend in common...would it be bad to ask him if he would have any ideas about what Jeff si thinking?