How COULD He Just Ignore Me Like That, Why Would He Do That To Me??

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Registered: 12-09-2010
How COULD He Just Ignore Me Like That, Why Would He Do That To Me??
Thu, 12-09-2010 - 11:41am

Why Is It That Men Behave This Way Towards Women?

There is this man that I have known for about a couple of years now. We had a relationship that lasted about a year, but we would still talk to each other. For sometime afterwards he was still very friendly, and would flirt with me. He would even come and see me where I worked. Talking for us just seemed to be normal for us.

There have been times, though, over the past year that when he would see me he would start walking in the other direction, or pretend he was busy or interested in the books that were in the window; even when the bookstore was closed. For the most part, though, we have had several really good conversations. The reason that we are no longer together is that he gave his ex another chance and took her back.

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Registered: 05-18-2009

I have a more important question.

Why do women like you give a rat's arse about men like these? You should be the one ignoring HIM.

Ask me why men treat women like this, and I'll ask you what makes a person lie, cheat, steal, murder, etc... It's because they don't give a crap about other people. All they see is what they want, and all they know how to do is get what they want. There's no way you'll ever be able to understand why, or how he could do this, because it's a completely different brain than the one you have. It's like trying to understand a monkey.