New here and feeling very hurt tonight. =(
Starlyn, I'm sorry you are hurting right now.
The truth of the matter is that there are some things about you which don't work for him. It's just that he's held back from telling you.
Thing is, very few people are brutally honest about why they are breaking up...because it's too hurtful for the dumpee to hear all their 'faults' being listed. Also, honesty opens the doors for the dumpee to say "Oh, I can change that part of me" if you'll stay.
Besides that, the list of what went wrong is really subjective. He may tell you that you're too X, but the next guy might love that thing about you. So, a 'fault' to one person isn't necessarily a 'fault' to all people.
You say that the two of you broke up a few months back. The fact that you've already broken up back then does show that all wasn't perfect in the relationship. And whatever was wrong back then is probably still wrong now.
Let me give you an analogy.
beautifully analogy.... let's remember, we are all porcshes!
Good luck keep yourself busy and remember to always always love yourself first. Everyday will get easier for you. Stay strong you will get through this and find your real love.
Sorry for what you're going thru.
I'm so sorry. It's completely natural to feel the way you are feeling, but liking everything about someone and thinking they're perfect for you on paper doesn't equate to being in love with them.
One of the most passionate couples I ever knew were very mismatched. They were just totally incompatible in so many ways, but MADLY in love. Unfortunately love wasn't enough and the relationship ended badly, but it goes to show that love isn't logical.
My best wishes for your healing and better luck next time.
That is an awesome analogy.